I used to spread rumor about a ‘friend’ of mine at our workplace. I defamed her and ruined her reputation there. I went around telling the ‘gossipers’ that she would go around with the guys at work (which is true, but not my problem) and I would add in extra juicy details (which is all lies).

On the other hand, her marriage was also bad, her husband was a druggy, didn’t work, they were quite poor and he was very abusive (physically and emotionally). I would pretend to be her friend and hear out the details, then secretly be happy about her marriage problems.

Looks like karma got me too good… My life had gone downhill ever since. My marriage is now worse than hers. I had been defamed by those around me. I now understand the pain she went through.. the stress. Some days I go into work crying like what she used to do.

I am so sorry my dear old friend… I wish I could apologize to her. I hope she is doing well. I hope her husband changed his ways and now loves her – I hope she does stop seeking attention from elsewhere.