Am I just being worried or is my relationship evolving?
I’ve been dating my boyfriend just less than a year, but lately I have fear that we are growing apart. We spend less and less time trying to actively engage with each other.
The same amount of going out but it is like we are both putting in less effort. It’s more casual meals in, or catch-ups for coffee.
I don’t feel like we are ignoring each other, and we still meet often. He and I are just spending more time with our own lives/bubbles.
I do hope we move in together, once we both finish university. We both have plans.
Maybe I’m just seeking reassurance, but is this normal for a relationship? Or are we expected to spend more time together in our spare moments, and put in larger amounts of effort?
