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I don’t understand what I’m doing wrong…recently my boyfriend and I have been going back and forth with petty arguments and just last week he told me he was falling out of love with me simply because I wasn’t at school and he “didn’t see a point in dating someone he can’t even hug”. I’ve been trying my best to patch things up because our past was so messy due to things I did before we dated so I wanted to be the best I can be as his boyfriend to make it up so him. On Halloween he gave me gorgeous roses even thought we agreed to not buy gift me for any holiday for the rest of the year due to money issues yet he went against it because he’s stubborn. I don’t have the proper materials to keep the roses alive so I thought maybe I could just crush the petals and use them to make a candle or journaling and give it to him as a thank you gift because I’ve never received flowers from any of my past relationships. I was only going to use a few petals because the roses are so pretty that I just wanted to try to keep a few of them alive despite not having proper materials. When I told him my idea he got upset with me…he completely missed the point and got the impression that I was just discarding the gift he gave me. We argued again over it and I just can’t seem to understand what I did wrong…I’m really trying my best but it seems like he gets upset over the most random things. He’s not a bad guy at all I really love him with all my heart. It’s just so confusing as to why he gets upset over random things that are always harmless. Another example is when we went on Omegle and we met this guy who was really nice, I thought he had a very soothing cute voice. He had an accent too because he was Canadian so I complimented him. Later when my boyfriend and I were heading to bed he got really upset with me almost yelled at me even because I complimented another guys voice. He didn’t even say goodnight to me and he just hung up the phone so I went to bed upset and confused. In the morning I told him he overreacted but it just resulted in him getting even more upset with me. He told me I shouldn’t have done what I did because he was insecure of his voice? I still till this day don’t understand why me complimenting a strangers voice was bad but that’s just and example of what our petty arguments are like. Despite the arguments we do have more good days than bad. I just want to see if there’s actually something I’m doing wrong or if I have a right to be confused. I really need some input…

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