I sometimes wish my father-in-law would just die. His health is poor in general and he lost control of his bowels after the last trip to the hospital and went from being able to use a walker to bedbound because the nursing home screwed up so badly. My wife and I are running ourselves ragged caring for him, even with the visiting nurses and aides. I don’t bear him any malice and my wife would probably consider divorce if she knew I felt this way, even as occasional as it is. The simple truth is that we’re all so f****** tired.
