So when members of both sides of my family reach 18, it is tradition to have our emblem tattooed on us, that’s either a bird (Mums) or the crest (Dads). However, I feel pressured into getting both done since the boys usually have the crest & bird but my brother chose the bird only- that and because I have taken my Dad’s surname they want me to have their mark. So I now feel stuck since I’m the only female and have 2 Brothers: my Mum’s side wants me to get a bird that resembles the clan and myself, but my Dad’s side wants me to get the emblem due to heritage.
But I don’t favour either of them a lot and want something else that is far from it. I don’t know whether I can persuade my Bro to have our crest as well so I can have the bird or combine the two. But I am not a fan of the colours of our markings, style and the pressure. Heck I don’t even know what I want for dinner most of the Time!
Any advice I’d really appreciate it x
