Today I went to lunch with my exboss and asked him for money again. I just can’t seem to make it, my car is in the shop and I had to ask him for money. Sure it is humiliating, I feel humiliated, asking him if he can help me and he says what to you need and he gives me money. In this case we went to the shop and he paid so I could get my car out.

I am a 27 year old male and my exboss is a senior member of my church. When he says goodbye he pats my cheek and tells me to be a good boy.