I a new mother of twin boys. The father of the boys is married and he hasn’t told his wife yet. She has a three year old girl and a six year old son. My pregnancy was unplanned, but I admit we were having an office affair. I just can’t afford to support them without help. He will have child support payments that he just can’t pay. His wife is a stay at home mom. Leave out that I want to stay at home too.
My social worker, referred to me by the lawyer I spoke with about getting state assistance is forcing me to force him to tell his wife. She is blinded by the child support. I can’t ask him to ruin her life. I am going to move back in with my folks, give up my job until my mom can care for my sons and I can get another job and live at home, which is far away in another state. I will not ruin his family, but I am heart broken and he is heart broken, I love him more than anyone can imagine. Somehow, somehow I pray my boys will one day have their father.
