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I love my fiance very, very much and I know that he is it. He’s my person that I want to spend the rest of my life with. He makes me laugh, takes care of me, and is so insanely kind. Seriously just such a good person. BUT he’s also incredibly passive, which means that he hasn’t had a ton of career success. I have had a lot of career success but I work in a much less lucrative field than him.

I always thought I would be married, own a house, and have kids by this point but he’s just not ready yet because of this passiveness and indecisiveness. It makes my skin crawl to feel like I have done “nothing” in my 20s because my goals to become a wife and a mother depend so much on him. He’s my best friend and the person I would usually talk to about these feelings, but whenever I do it just makes him upset so I bottle them up and just end up feeling worse and worse.

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