I have always thought it’s completely wrong to go after a man who is taken. But then I met this guy, and he’s perfect. We have so much in common, he flirts with me a lot, all his hobbies are my hobbies, he’s so attractive, he’s so nice and funny, he’s everything I’ve ever looked for in a man. Except he has a girlfriend. And now suddenly I’m questioning myself, like maybe it’s okay to go after a taken man. What’s worse, going after a man who’s taken, or letting a perfect relationship slip by because he happens to be taken at the time. And maybe if he’s flirting with me while in a serious relationship, that relationship can’t be all that good anyway? I think I’ve made up my mind, I think I’m going to pursue him. And if something happens while he’s still with her, I think I can live with that.

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