I am in a monogamous relationship and want to stay in it. I love the relationship I’m in a lot.
But, I recently was on the tech crew for a play and got a surprisingly large crush on the director.
Several interactions led me to believe she developed a crush on me too. Including the classic “well, your partner is very lucky” aka ‘if you were single, I’d like to date you’
During a game of truth or dare at a cast party I was asked who in the room I’d like to have s** with. I answered that I’d like to have s** with the director and one of the actors as a close second. The director wasn’t paying attention when I said that, but a few minutes later someone informed her of my answer and she seemed quite happy with it.
Her boyfriend was there also and said something like “should I be jealous” and I said “if you want to be”

All this to say that I’ve been thinking about kissing her and maybe having s**.
She’s hot, she’s very capable, I like women in charge, etc etc.

Her boyfriend appears to be kinda lame and incompatible with her, so it would feel great to show her there are better options.

But, in real life I’m staying in my relationship and I don’t think it’s nice to rag on other people’s boyfriends. So, I’ll enjoy the crush feelings and try not to let them distract me too much.