I got drunk with my friend who I have a crush on and I showed her my b**** and asked if I could lick her p**** she looked embarrassed and said no and now she acts weird with me and looks at me like she thinks im going to come on to her again now she knows im attracted to her. I wish I hadn’t done it I feel silly and she has a boyfriend so it was bad of me to do that. I really hope I havent ruined our friendship
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Unreciprocated attraction can ruin friendships for sure. It doesn’t have to, but you need to be honest with yourself about the fact you’re never going to have a chance with her. Even if she calms down and your friendship resumes, you have to be okay with being a friend only, and that can be hard.
I guess your right but sometimes the way she would act with me made me think I had a chance with her and i have a really bad crush on her. If I just try to show im ok with just being friends do you think things will stop being weird between us after a while?
I don’t know her, so I have no way to know. She MIGHT be so weirded out by it that she can’t get over it, but if so, that’s all on her, not on you.
You should focus on what you can control about the situation. That’s why I mentioned what I said above. While you’re waiting on her to do whatever she’s going to do (to either resume your friendship or not), really decide if you’re okay with just friendship. Because if you’re not, it’s not really fair to her or to you to keep trying to “be friends” with her. You don’t want this kind of thing to happen again in the future.
I do want to still be friends with her but maybe im just hanging on to the idea that i could have a chance with her one day, i dont know im second guessing myself. I really like her and dont want to lose our friendship but is that just because i actually have feelings for her more than friendship. its hard im not even sure.