My wife is a nagging bitch- not even the kids like her anymore. They avoid her and walk on eggshells when she’s around. She is a micromanager and tries to control anything she can because the rest of her life is spinning out of control with depression and anxiety that she tries to ignore and bury. When she’s not nagging and not at work, she does nothing but sit on her ass to watch TV, sleep, or read social media.
The fact is, I stay married to her only because I committed to her in my vows.I have absolutely no emotional connection to her anymore. I don’t “need” her for anything- I learned I had to do everything for the family because she wouldn’t fulfill her obligations. I would leave her in a hearbeat if I hadn’t made the “’till death do we part commitment.” She just got back from a short stay at her mom’s house. I can’t say that I missed her at all. It was so relaxing to have a reprieve from someone who tries to micromanage everything and find something to worry and complain about.
I guess this is my lot in life. I committed to it. But honestly, I’m miserable with her. I wish she would just leave and make it easy on all of us.
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dude, if she already broke the vows, theres nothing worth keeping anymore. leave her and go for something that makes you happy.
Right. If it’s about money then get more and divorce her.
Tons of lonely women out there who would treat you like a king. You men like choosing the difficult bitches for whatever reason. I’m naturally a sweet submissive docile woman who likes to treat her man like a king..except he doesn’t want that. He is nicer to me when I act like a bitchy cunt. Literally it’s insane. Why do men get off on cruel women?
my mum was the same when my parents broke up, my dad recorded her treating me shit once and she didn’t see the problem. I can guarantee u that everyone will be better off if you divorce-> including the kids. Your vows also include ‘love and to cherish’ and if that isn’t happening any more….
Before you do though, talk to her, explain this and if she doesn’t listen then she dug her own grave on this one.
Very similar situation, and we’ve learned form it. The only way you can fix is communication but some ppl are too stubborn. But, if the kids hate her, get main custody over them (unfortunately courts are biased towards mothers but if your kids are old enough to give their POV thats good).
good luck either way man.
Kids are older teens, so there’s no doubt about custody issues- and they are boys, so there’s that. She wouldn’t even want custody of them- can’t handle them without turning into a monster as it is.