My wife is a nagging bitch- not even the kids like her anymore. They avoid her and walk on eggshells when she’s around. She is a micromanager and tries to control anything she can because the rest of her life is spinning out of control with depression and anxiety that she tries to ignore and bury. When she’s not nagging and not at work, she does nothing but sit on her ass to watch TV, sleep, or read social media.
The fact is, I stay married to her only because I committed to her in my vows.I have absolutely no emotional connection to her anymore. I don’t “need” her for anything- I learned I had to do everything for the family because she wouldn’t fulfill her obligations. I would leave her in a hearbeat if I hadn’t made the “’till death do we part commitment.” She just got back from a short stay at her mom’s house. I can’t say that I missed her at all. It was so relaxing to have a reprieve from someone who tries to micromanage everything and find something to worry and complain about.
I guess this is my lot in life. I committed to it. But honestly, I’m miserable with her. I wish she would just leave and make it easy on all of us.