I have reason to believe that my pregnancy is a result of a revenge attack initiated by my ex-husband.
Six months ago, I was divorced. I was only married for 18 months, no kids, mortgage on a small apartment in the central business district. It was a long, arduous ordeal and my ex-husband fought hard. I filed for the divorce, and he contested three times in 20 months, before it was finally over.
A month or so later, I signed up for Tinder. I matched a surprising number of really nice looking men, and went on a few dates before matching with “Mark”. “Mark” and I went out twice before we decided that we were both quite attracted to one another. He suggested we go back to my place, and I agreed.
We had s** twice that night, and I was pretty adamant that he use a condom. Both times, I believed that he had ejaculated while inside me and still in the condom, but both times, when I rolled over, he already has the used condom in his hand and it looked empty. I thought maybe he just didn’t ejaculate large quantities.
My v***** was rather wet and slippery, but he was very skilled and I hadn’t had any s** in a long time, so I assumed it was just my v***** being over excited.
The next day, “Mark’s” Tinder profile went missing. His number went straight to VM. My texts went completely unanswered, and his Facebook disappeared (I presume deactivated or I was blocked).
Three weeks later, my ex husband sends me a Facebook message saying “I hope you enjoy being a single parent, w****.” That was when I realized that my period was late.
I was VERY discreet about this s***** encounter. No one could have known about this. No one. Not a friend, or a work colleague, no one.
When I try to talk to my ex about it, he just replies with GIFs of people laughing, or rejects my calls.
I strongly believe that he set me up, and had someone stealth me. I’m pregnant, and very much in a position (financially) to raise this child solo, but what the he’ll do I tell them about their s***** father?! I don’t even really know who he is!!
Signed,
Knocked up and scared.
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You got this girl. That’s going to be the best kid ever and he/she is going to grow up very happy. Screw his/her “father,” you’ll be a kick ass mom. You can be honest about the “father.” I have a lot of friends with absent dads and they have come to terms with the truth. They usually joke about it and seem pretty happy with just their mothers.
If you definitely didnt have unprotected sex with any one else around that time that might have got you pregnant then I guess it must have been from that encounter. When you thought he might have came inside you why didnt you try to push the semen out to see if there was any inside you?
This is why women should not have sex with strangers.
Honey, why didn’t you take the pill?
I know it’s hard, but you cannot just trust men.
They often don’t care for the consequenzes of their actions!
If your kid’s a boy, I hope you teach him better!
If you wanna get back at your ex: ENJOY LIFE WITH YOUR CHILD! Show him what he is missing out on.
yes men will just risk getting you pregnant if you give them the chance, I have to admit I have made the mistake a few times in the heat of the moment of letting a guy put it in without a condom when I wasn’t on birth control and each time they just finished inside my vagina. luckily I didnt get pregnant though.
Haha! You weren’t on the pill so got what was coming. Saddled with a kid, nobody is gonna want that sloppy cunt after a kid dropped out of it.
You say this but I bet you only talk like this to woman because they find you replusive.