Abortion are a far greater weight upon a woman’s soul than most people know or understand – and they never talk about it. A woman I work with is still suffering from an abortion she had over twenty years ago. They really should Make people give babies up for adoption instead of abortion

there really are women/families out there who desperately want to have a baby and cannot and would provide a loving home.

a woman I work with has been trying to have children for 4 years now, without success. she spent a small fortune on fertility treatments to no avail. shes done everything to make it work. she quit smoking two packs a day after smoking for twenty years since her freshman year of high school, And I know for a fact shes been a chain smoker since she was 14 because we were friends back in high school (actually we dated briefly too) now we work together and are still close friends.

shes desperately committed to getting healthier to have a baby, she also started working out and eating healthy to get in shape. She’s literally in the best shape of her life since when she was on high school dance squad now

most impressive of all, she stopped drinking alcohol completely months in advance.

honestly, as someone who struggles with alcoholism and has for years – I wish I had the discipline to do that. she has done everything imaginable to make herself healthy enough to have children

But she just can’t because she’s infertile now

now after 4, almost 5 years of trying, shes about to give up when she turns 40.

She and her spouse have been on an adoption waitlist for over two years now, and still have gotten nowhere.

I think theyve been discriminated against becaue they are a lesbian couple, and they were just allowed to marry 2 years ago

But she’s be a great mom and it’s not fair that she’ll never get the chance

private adoptions cost a fortune and theyve spent all their money on fertility treatments since those arent covered under insurance

there arent enough babies available for public adoption in some places because so many of the eligible babies are killed in abortions

she cries everyday about it at work…

All because she had an abortion at 17. She felt she had no other choice because it was an accident and she was in high school and back then in the 90s it was entirely too easy for teenage girls to get abortions – horrifyingly too easy

And they never once told her about the consequences of abortions when she was a teenager – – the toll it would take on her soul

So she hid it from everyone. Never told anyone until recently when she told me about her abortion and broke down crying in her office

she cries everyday now because she thinks that was her one chance to have babies and that she missed it forever

she is still going to try for adoption, and said shes is looking into maybe look into signing up for Foster parenting options next year but smash is afraid her status as a lesbian couple only married two years will count against her in this conservative southern state

This emptiness and loss and suffering and depression is all becaue of Abortion

all of this suffering is from abortion