I’m married but in love with another man. We had an affair last year, but we knew eachother 10 years ago. He confessed that he always loved me and never married or had a lasting relationship because no one measured up to me. My husband has been disabled for many years, so a normal relationship is really not there. The man I am in love with wants to be with me for life and knows I really cannot leave. He was so forlorn about it, that he stopped talking to me for months. I was heartbroken but I understood. We recently have been talking again, but haven’t seen eachother. He just tells me his heart has been splintered – understanding my situation and that we were wrong to have an affair, but torn because of his love for me. I love him the exact same way. When we are together, there is no time. we can sit and stare with no words spoken. We know what is on the other’s mind. We are so very alike and so very compatible. But what do I do? Leave a sick man? We have two boys, also. Do I disrupt their lives for my selfish reasons of wanting to be happy?
