I’m getting married next week and I keep thinking about someone else. I love my fiancé but I still think about what it could have been like if I’d given this other man more of a chance than the brief fling we’d had – one that continued on for a bit around the time my fiancé and I just started to get serious. It was intense and feelings were definitely growing, but certain circumstances made it unrealistic to keep going. To make matters worse he’s a friend of my fiancé.