I am a woman almost in her thirties. I am in a relationship with a man I truly love. Unfortunately I was not sextually active before him and he has told me all about his sextual encounters before me, but always tells me he is happy that I was a virgin when we first had s**. I feel like I dont know myself sextually and I missed out knowing so much before entering a committed relationship. I don’t want to break up or jeopardize our relationship by finding myself sextually. Because of this I have fantasized about being raped just so I could have some other kind of sextual encounter withough cheating or breaking up.
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Tell him to shut the fuck up about his past, and you my friend; don’t wish rape on yourself. That statement enough is stupid too.
Maybe you could watch some porn either with him or alone and learn some things that way. Or maybe he’d be up for the two of you experimenting wither with each other or maybe bringing others into the bedroom or living room. That way you could get some more experience and you might both have a good time. Some men like watching their wives with other men, or, you know, there are so many combinations of possibilities you could explore. Maybe you wouldn’t have to be with another man. There are so many fun ways to explore our sexuality. My advice is do it while you’re young and still want to and still are able to.
Where do you live?