I found my step-daughter’s USB memory card in my bag. She must have dropped it in there accidentally. I asked her in the past “What is on this USB memory card?” and she replied saying “Its stuff for college and photos of movies I like”.
So I believed her. But then recently she said “I am struggling at college. Can you help me?” and, obviously, I said “yes.” So I helped her as much as I can.
Today when found the USB memory card in my bag that she accidentally dropped, I had a look on it to see if she is still struggling.
OMG!! It didn’t JUST have her college work and photos of movies she likes on there. There was also had explicit photos and videos of her and p*** videos she downloaded on there. I was in shock to see that. So much that I was shaking, sweating and my heart was pounding.
I am not to sure on what to do.
A: Do I just keep it as a secret and not tell anyone what I saw and just give it back to her?
Or
B: Do I tell her mum that I saw p*** videos on there and try to explain to her why it is wrong to download it?
Or
C: Do give it back to her and try to explain to her why it is wrong to download p*** videos and take explicit photos and videos of here self?
Reasons why I can’t make up my mind, cause if I do:
A: She might think it’s normal to take explicit photos and videos of her self and carry on
B: Her mum will call me a perv and divorce me
C: I will lose step-daughter’s in trusting me
What shall i do?
All Comments
Talking to her is the best option. If you tell on her she’ll lose respect for you
If i talk to her I will lose step-daughter’s in trusting me
Think about the consequences that come if she continue to do what she is doing. If those consequences are worse than loosing someone’s trust, probably temporarily, then go with C. Do not do option B at all. Just be reasonable.
Sounds like the start of a porno in itself. But if this is real then talk to her about it. Tell her you thought it was your USB card until you put it in.
Sounds like she dropped it and you asked about it and then she dropped it again. If that’s the case she did it on purpose and CLEARLY wants you to see what is on it. Wake up!
Don’t be stupid! Shut up don’t talk to her. Most kids today, are all over porn. It nothing to them! Not like us! Ignore it, let her go. Otherwise you will create a wall so awkward between you and her. You would never live it down. Mark my words! Regrets are hard on this kind of relationship. And that is all you will have left. Regret!
I agree. If you dropped your USB card would you want her to look at what’s on it? No. fORGET IT happened. She will think you’re a jerk for looking at it and even more of a jerk for telling her you looked at it and “talking to her about it.”