So I have been dating this guy for the past 4 years. With lots of ups and downs we made it through. However, I am now feeling a distance from him. We don’t see each other in the longer term but can’t be not together as well. Recently, I’ve started crushing on a friend who is mutual to both me and my boyfriend. and its getting really strong. I’m liking everything from his music taste to the way he behaves. Is it bad to feel that way? Why is this happening? What should I possibly do to make it either go away or stay.
P.S. one side wants to stay, one side wants to go with the other guy. not possible to date the other guy at the moment though.