My boyfriend is insecure about his weight. He is chubby with big, thick thighs, and he hates it and is always trying to loose weight. But I really, really like chubby guys. Fat guys. But he doesn’t know this. I actually really want him to gain more weight. I guess it is sort of a fetish at this point. I partially want to tell him that I really, really like fat guys, but I don’t want him to feel insulted that I acknowledged his chubby-ness because being fat is an insult to him. I also know it is really unusual for girls not just to like chubby guys, but full on big squishy cuddly fat guys, so I am afraid he would be extra weirded out if I said anything.
For now, I just tell him I love him just the way he is and that he’s not fat and could really afford to gain some weight (hehe!). Anyone have any thoughts?
