It’s my fault you ended up this way. It’s my fault that you see me as an emotional crutch and a personal therapist, it’s my fault that you dump all of your problems, real of fake, onto me every day while I can’t even consider asking you for advice. It’s my fault you expect me to be at your beck and call every hour of the day for as long as you’re awake, and it’s my fault that I feel resentful, angry, and, most of all, tired.
I know it’s my fault because I enabled your self-desctructive behavior way too many times.
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If you finally realize that you’ve been enabling this person’s destructive behaviour, it’s time to change it. I know you had good intentions but plz don’t let people walk all over you, or use you as an emotional crutch when you yourself are dealing with your own issues. Its clearly taking a toll on you, and I think it’s ok for you to be a little “selfish” for once.
They always say the first step to fixing a problem is admitting you have one, yeah?
I’ve placed some distance between them and myself for the time being; I just need some time away from them to clear my head and shake the negative vibes out. Time will tell if they decide to fix themselves or not.
What’s the story? I knew someone who tended to do this to me as well.