Two years ago, I dated the mother of my daughter’s friend. She eventually broke it off because she was worried that if something went wrong between she and I, it would affect our daughters’ relationship. I’ve been in relationships since, but I still have strong feelings for her. She knows it, but we still act like friends and all I want to do is touch her every day for the rest of my life. I keep it in because it’s not her cross to bear, but it is slowly killing me and I don’t know if that feeling will ever go away.
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Had similar. Dated a woman about 2 years ago, very beautiful, had good job, and was a great mom to her daughter. Who, I then found out was best friends with a young bartender I knew. When the bartender girl started asking me about her friend’s mom, fairly often, I started to think, this isn’t going to work if everything I do gets back to the mom via the daughter’s friend. If I go there for pizza and a draft, mom’s going to know; Stay awhle, mom’s going to know. The relationship ended after it’s normal course, but the bartender girl, if I see her, still tells me that mom always asks about me, if I’m with anyone (relationship-wise), and to advise me that she/mom is available. I just don’t want to get back into something that I feel trapped or can’t do what I want without someone else reporting it.