I had this really annoying friend who used to laugh at me for being in a serious relationship. I started listening to her and broke up with my bf in an impulse. I am desperate to get back with him now, but he won’t meet me. In the meantime, my friend has gotten a bf and won’t shut up about how good it is to be in a relationship. I am internally and unutterably angry with her.
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She got you good , she was very jealous of you. And if she is\was your friend she would want the best for you.
In other words she wasn’t being your friend.period….dump her!!!! Then honestly if you really like the guy and he was good to you.(very important) then i, me would go back groveling to him for an open ear!! And at least explain all your action were coerced by your “past acquaintance” now nonfreind.
I’m a guy and if I like you and something like this happened i would at least give you ear to speak your peace! You can then say you tried, sincerely. I hope you get him back
I’ve had a friend like this before, they always have to be the one step ahead of you, if you dare to have something important that they don’t have they will subtly try to part you with it. Dump your ‘friend’.
These people aren’t friends. Friends will support you, but sometimes they will protect you.
If they’re protecting you from doing something stupid, listen.
You’ll know if it’s stupid or not.
If they try to harm you, don’t be their friend.
And if they gossip about people all the time, that probably means they gossip about you too.
Friends aren’t assholes. Common sense. Don’t let them control you, but also don’t control them. You don’t want to be the asshole friend. You want to be the good friend.
As for the guy, do what the first person says. And if that doesn’t work, find someone else. Orrr forget about dating in school in general. I do that because dating is just drama and a distraction for me. Also usually most school relationships don’t last long, except if they’re in college or maybe … rarely … high school.