I just got a new job with a huge raise. My wife just had her hours cut, and am forced with a huge cash flow shortage. It is her dream job, and I understand why she wants to stay. But she told me I was not allowed to chase my dream of going into business for myself when I was looking for my new job. Now I am applying for delivery jobs and bar tending jobs in my mid 30’s. Which wouldn’t be so bad, but I find myself resenting my wife because of her insistence that I set aside my dreams for our family, but she doesn’t have to even put hers on hold when it is actually hurting our situation.