A girl from my uni posted a MeToo post about how she was grabbed in the street and is getting lots of support. She wasn't raped or anything - not that

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A girl from my uni posted a MeToo post about how she was grabbed in the street and is getting lots of support. She wasn’t raped or anything – not that being grabbed in the street is fine. But I am feeling mad and feel so guilty about it. The thing is, I was technically ‘raped’ 6 years ago, when I was 15 – but I’ve never told anyone, because I feel like I deserved it. That night I was in a foreign country all by my own and went to a club with a group of people I’d known for a week, all of them older, I was the baby of the group. It was my second time drinking and I really wanted to seem cool and fit in, so I drank way to much. I remember one of the German lads who had payed for my drinks and I had flirted with carrying me to my room, something happened, I’m not sure what, but I woke up naked, sore and alone. There wasn’t any blood – I had never had s** before but I had used a v******* + I did sports professionally (6 times a week), so I don’t know if there should have been any. Basically, I had no idea what happened and felt very ashamed – I HAD drank a lot, I HAD flirted with him, I HAD let him buy me my drinks. I decided to forget the whole thing, but it still haunts me today, and now that I’m older I can kinda see how that event started a pattern of bad behavouir. I know I’m never going to write a post like that girl, because the reactions to my story would be so different: most would keep quiet and just think to themselves, ‘well, you weren’t really raped now, were you?’. That girl said in her post how ‘good’ she was, and that she wasn’t wearing anything revealing or anything. My story is the opposite. I feel angry at this girl because she’s got this off her chest and is getting support. Something I know I’ll never get. So I’m so f****** angry and jelous. And guilty for feeling these things. God bless anonymous confession sites.

New Confession

These are a couple of life lessons I’ve learned. The first one is that I used to date this guy that had family that tried pushing us to be together whenever we were only trying to get to know each other. I did get a bit irritated with his sister in law that seemed a bit bossy and picky about how I done things. He claimed it had nothing to do with her but he broke up with me saying that deep down he just didn’t love me and that I would find someone else. Had he really told the truth then we would’ve stayed friends. It turns out he was with a woman just right before we started dating and she was pregnant so he had to come up with an excuse to break up with me. Anyways a few years later he took his life because he had too many seizures. He wouldn’t had done that to his wife and little girl if he knew what he was doing. My second one is that one of my other exes turn things around about himself to make me sound like his problems were mine. He jumped into a relationship with someone he didn’t know days after the breakup. That woman was the mother of my teen daughters boyfriend ( now ex boyfriend) they all done horrible things against my family and I. The woman that was the main cause for concern has shockingly had a stroke and passed away a couple of weeks later. My lesson I’ve learned is that life is short,life is fragile, forgiveness is hard but not impossible.

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Sad that most Pride fest are over. Traveling to a few cities next month for late celebrations.
And will honk a few ding a lings while there.