These are a couple of life lessons I’ve learned. The first one is that I used to date this guy that had family that tried pushing us to be together whenever we were only trying to get to know each other. I did get a bit irritated with his sister in law that seemed a bit bossy and picky about how I done things. He claimed it had nothing to do with her but he broke up with me saying that deep down he just didn’t love me and that I would find someone else. Had he really told the truth then we would’ve stayed friends. It turns out he was with a woman just right before we started dating and she was pregnant so he had to come up with an excuse to break up with me. Anyways a few years later he took his life because he had too many seizures. He wouldn’t had done that to his wife and little girl if he knew what he was doing. My second one is that one of my other exes turn things around about himself to make me sound like his problems were mine. He jumped into a relationship with someone he didn’t know days after the breakup. That woman was the mother of my teen daughters boyfriend ( now ex boyfriend) they all done horrible things against my family and I. The woman that was the main cause for concern has shockingly had a stroke and passed away a couple of weeks later. My lesson I’ve learned is that life is short,life is fragile, forgiveness is hard but not impossible.