I’ve been in a loving, committed relationship for 2 and a half years. My boyfriend recently went abroad to work and I should be joining him soon. I’m still in my hometown with all of our friends. I still love him very much and believe he is my soulmate, but because of the given situation and problems we’ve encountered over the last year, something strange happened. I started having very intense feelings for one of his close friends. He and I have found a certain solace in each other since my boyfriend left. I started having frequent dreams about this friend of ours, I see him almost every day, we’re very alike and have a lot in common… In certain aspects he understands me better than my boyfriend. I don’t know if he feels the same way, but he has been sending me little signals for a while. I’m not sure how I feel, all I know is that I feel guilty even though nothing happened between us. I don’t know if I would stop him if he tried.