I need advice. My boyfriend and I recently did something and I’m very conflicted about it. First of all, I have never done anything like this before. Second, it is not something that I dreamed about or even fantasized about. And, most of all, I am a one man woman. I have no desires for threesomes or swinging, or anything like that.

Okay, now that is out of the way, I met my boyfriend for a late dinner at a nice Italian restaurant. We left a little before 11pm and were saying good night in the parking lot and making out. Playfully he removed my top. The bus boys came out and were doing some work in the back of the restaurant. He shielded me and I covered myself with my arms.

Of course, they noticed and they were good about it and were giggling at us. Then, out of no where my boyfriend motioned for them to come over. It was obvious they wanted to see and I was very shy and hesitant. My boyfriend gently pulled my arms down and I used that as an excuse to expose myself. They made comments that were very complimentary and I got dressed.

The advice I need is to know if this type of behavior is abhorrent? I’m very torn over the events of that evening. Was my boyfriend disrespectful? Was I acting like a floozy? Am I immoral because I thought it was fun? If I never did this again, I’d be okay with it. Does that make me a prude?

My boyfriend thinks I am over analyzing it and it was a lark.