I talk to someone who I’m gonna call Tom. Tom is sweet and actually cares about me which is sweet but we only vibe on texting and in real life he’s completely boring and not fun and we just don’t vibe. He is also shorter than me and from looks he isn’t rlly my type which would have been fine as long as we vibe irl but we don’t. However I can’t stop talking to him because when we msg I get he illusion he’s amazing then irl it’s not great. However then there’s a guy called Andy who is rlly fun and we vibe rlly well in real life. Visually he is also my type which shows why I’m being swayed. However most of his girlfriends he has had he’s been with for short periods of time or they’ve rushed things and been s*****. I don’t know what to do as I like Andy but I like the idea of Tom when I msg him. And Tom has admitted he likes me however Andy just subtly hints things. But idk if Andy is a fuckboy and Tom is really nice but it’s jus not it and IDFKKK please help 😂