I went to the doctors recently for the first time in years and because I’m 30 they said I should come back for a checkup. So I did and part way through the checkup the doctor told me he was now going to give me a pelvic exam, I really wasn’t expecting it. I had never had a man touch my v***** before because I realized I was lesbian as an early teen and have always dated women. I know its a normal procedure and for the good of my own health but I feel kind of violated and a bit upset about it.
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Um. You could refuse thw treatment at any time. I don’t mean to be an ass or anything. Possibly because you werent fully aware that it would happen or what was involved it made you feel that way? I can understand the feeling though. I got a vasectomy a few years ago and had a male doctor. During the presurgery check up he sat on a stool and wheeled over to me while I was standing. I wasn’t fully aware of what was going to happen and he told me to drop my pants and then proceeded to touch my penis and balls. To include spreading the tip to inspect. I haven’t had a man do any of that before. I did feel a bit violated but its part of a health checkup. Please don’t let it bother you by over-thinking. And if it does bother you ask a female physician to walk you through a proper pelvic exam or possibly find a female doctor to avoid the situation in the future. I hope this helps or made some sense.
like I said I wasn’t expecting it so I just thought I’d better go along with it because its part of the check up and I didn’t know exactly what it involved until it happened but afterwards I started to feel upset about it, I will ask for a female doctor in the future if its possible.
You can request a female physician do such exams. Personally I have similar issues with a female doc examining my genitals or asshole.