Gay dude here. I had receptive a*** s** for the first time a couple of weeks ago. I’d been stretching with an a*** stretching kit he gave me (a series of small buttplugs) for a week or so, so it actually went really well!

Since then, though, I’ve had this dull ache in my a******. There’s no blood and I don’t feel swollen “there.”

If I go to the doctor do I have to tell him I’m gay and having a*** s**? Will he know as soon as he sees my b******* that I have?

Help!