im 40, yep, im getting old, but i look young for my age, i still get id for wine and cigarettes.
i work with a boy half my age, hes awesome, in every way possible. it seems a lot of girls are attracted to him, but he just shrugs them off like meh, but hes not gay, lol, jus really picky.
its like, when i was young, guys would try to talk or rub up against me at the club, and im like, no thanks. you get desensitized to the unwanted attention and compliments. i think he’s a virgin or at least, very little experience in s**.
he’s so sweet, gets me snacks, hang out a lot during work, have breaks together, have our own inside jokes, and work seems easier, im starting to fall for him, not sure about his feelings, tho. i dont wanna make things awkward at work, and i especially dont wanna come across as a cradle robber, or worse, getting friendzoned at age 40 is quite pathetic.
please feel free to comment.
All Comments
40 isn’t old. I’d wait till he made the first move though. Meanwhile just flirt and dress sexy.
I’m in a similar situation, except he’s the one twice my age.
i dont think he’ll make a move, i’m not gonna ask him out, cuz it could lead to the “um, i like you as a friend…” talk, flirting is questionable, lots of girls flirt with him at work (stupid bitch customers) lol, i dont wanna compete either. what are your plans? lol.
Yeah I’d be too worried to take the risk. Maybe get drunk somewhere?
I don’t know if this guy will make a move either, he has no clue! Planning to tell him I have a thing for him and act all shy about it haha
Just ask him out for drinks as friends, eg, if he’s having a bad day say you’ll take him out for a drink and he can’t take no for an answer
Until you’re interacting off the clock, its only flirty office fantasy, which is great, but each of your concerns are valid. Taking it slow is wise. Follow your heart!
Just take him in the bathroom and drain him
Even if nothing else happens between you two you’ll always be someone who’s tasted his seed
no thanks, were not kinky people.
Jesus.lol
Why don’t you just treat him as a human being and stop thinking of him as a toy to supply you with attention? Women don’t know how to be friends with men. All you know how to do it take men’s money, time or attention. Do you even see men as real people?
i do treat him like human being. my post was about me crushing on a 22 year old boy, not about wanting him as a “toy to supply attention”, only insincere people think like that.
clearly, you’ve been thru bad experiences with women for you to assume we want money or time.
i hope you find out how wrong you are and see women as individuals not like a group out to screw you over.