My marriage is no longer enjoyable
We have been married for 11 years, have one 5 year old daughter that that I absolutly adore and can’t imagine or even want to imagine her not in my life…
BUT
My wife never has been what I’d conside a generally “happy” person. Always negative and feeling sorry for herself, and constently tried to keep up with her sister. In the past few years, I’ve noticed that she has become more and more bitter. She loses her temper easily and often, and when it’s because some something I did ( not make the bed, empty the dishwasher, etc. ) she can and has in the past become verbally and physically hit me before. I haven’t and never would hit her and would never call her names and attack my family like she does me. I’m getting really, really tired of it. I don’t want to get a divorce, but I’m starting to get worn down by the negativity, the attitude, the hitting and lack of interest romanticly and s*******. I don’t know if because I’ve put her feelings and wants ahead of mine that she no longer respects me or what.