I have only had s** with one person which was crap most of the time and I wasn’t attracted to him. I haven’t had s** since 1999. I have social anxieties and I’m scared of socialisation so stay at home. I’m in my 40’s now and wish nothing more than to have a lot of s** with an experienced man in my age group. Or have a friend with benefits. I wish I could advertise but it’s not safe and I’m not confident.