Me and my wife have been together for 25 years. She has never been with any other guy. She had 1 or 2 boyfriends in high school but I am the only guy that has ever been inside her. She says she is OK with that but how can she be? She has got to wonder what it would be like to have another man in her. I would be willing to swap with another couple for a night if she wanted to so she could experience it. That and it has been 25 years since I felt another woman from the inside and I have thoughts about it all the time. I have came close to paying for an e***** just to be with someone other than her. It’s wrong of me I know. I think that’s why I could not bring myself to do it. However, I would like to feel another woman and I would like her to experience another guy at least once. I love her with all of my heart, but it has been the same thing over and over for years. She doesn’t really like to do anything k**** and I wanna do so much more. I wanna put it in her b*** too but there’s no way she would let me. That, and I don’t want to hurt her, but I fantasize about it all the time.
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Peg her and force her to give you raw, dirty, hard sex. She’s your wife. Your property. Your sexual toy. Use her.
I like you!
I tell my bf to think of me as his property all the time, my body = his property to do whatever he wants to with, including fucking me while i’m asleep and can’t consent due to be out. Fucking love it
OP, this is a dangerous road to go down simply because you might not be able to turn back once you experience kinky sex with a different woman after 25 years, love or not.
Your best bet is trying to convince her to have an open relationship, but if she says no – she says no. Don’t bully her into it.
Also, try being more dominate with her and ask her how she feels about exploring new things. Be honest about wanting to try new things.
Your sex life can start over, even at 40+.
I’m in my late 20’s, and me and my bf are always trying new things – with him being 100% in control of course.
The dominance thing is such a huge turn on to me, i love being his property and him moving and controlling me and my body when it comes to sex. I think a lot of women like dominance in the bedroom, it’s so natural, it’s how things should be…….try getting her into new things tho, have faith – don’t give up!!
If the sex thing ever becomes too much for you to handle, you should be honest before you go and get an escort. Let her know that after begging with her to swing once, try new things, be in an open relationship, or etc, you’re left with no other choice and it’s up to her whether she stays or not after you see the escort.
She might leave you, but you’re only wrong and a loser if you can’t at least be honest with her if your sexual frustration DOES get to that point. But hopefully it doesn’t, hopefully she’s willing to either try new kinky things and be your whore like the bitch should be(hehe), or switch partners with someone else once(though I can promise you it won’t be one time, swinging usually leads to one or both wanting to do it again and again – like an addiction, or it can lead to straight divorce and a new lover. I totally recommend trying to get her to try new things/be-kinky with you vs. the swinging stuff since it won’t just be a one time thing, but w/e – good luck daddy <3)
Been there. Still there. But! I want out!
27 yrs. It all worn down , thought about the buddy thing. But what will it accomplish?
I’m looking for a gf Now ,someone to experience, a little excitement. If it turns serious then so be it.
But I know YOU WILL NOT CHANGE HER! She can only change herself. And probably won’t. So it’s up to you.
Your choice. If you want it , then go get it. But just be careful. If your in love w her? You’ll regret it!
Otherwise it’s time to move on. I know I know , I myself has to make that choice too. I just want to live life not be afraid of it!