I’m 27, Male, effectively single. New job that has been going rather well, the pay is decent and it looks like I’ll be able to settle up on some debts soon. I’m told that I’m not unattractive, that I’m fun, easy to get along with and able to hold meaningful conversation. People seem drawn to me. I’m doing something wrong because no one yet has been interested in being anything more than a friend or friend with benefits. I’m tired of entering into what I hope will be an actual relationship only to find that it was simply to comfort an aching heart.