My sister in law constantly posts pictures about her weight loss. So far I have lost 60 pounds but choose not to put up pictures because it’s not my thing. I get why she puts up pictures but she does not understand why I choose not to. I still have 30 pounds to go and when she discusses exercise I mention some of the ones that I am doing. She says “Oh that doesn’t burn as much as me” or “I couldn’t feel a burn. Yeah, because you are in better shape and I still have a little bit to go. I wish this could just be about weight loss but she tries to one-up me constantly such as weddings (she had a huge one and I chose to get married on the beach), educational choices or whatever. I got to live in the country that she always chose to visit and she has been really nasty to me. Since then she has been pointing out petty things or if my husband and her husband joke around (they are brothers) she gets really defensive over a conversation between brothers. We have two different personalities, she is an extrovert and I am an introvert and there are times I wish I can be her friend but I wish she would let the petty crap go and stop competing with me in a contest I never chose to be in. Now that she wants to visit us in the new country I am afraid she will just be petty and look down at our small house or try to instigate problems yet again.