One of my good friends had lost a family member. Before that, i be avoiding her since she wants to drink when i come around, she been in treatment already for the drinking problem. Now with the loss of a family member, she called me crying and was already drinking, is there a way i can be there for her, not making her want to drink more? I be sober near her, she hates it , i never want to make her want to drink. She said in the past that she wants to drink with me cause im fun, so i stop spending time with her. Now she needs a friend, alcohol is killing it/her. I tell her how i thought before the death in the family and yet she drank on that too. Im at the point i regret meeting her and she is only always in need. Death is final, how am i able to be there, have want to be there?