The girl who’s been my best friend for ten years, the biggest ally I’ve had in my gender transition, and the person I trust with everything is moving 13 hours away in a couple months. I’m upset that she’s leaving but more upset that I’m so selfish that all I can think is that she’s leaving me, and I can hardly consider the things that will be good for her. I just feel like a bad person and a worse friend, and I can’t talk to anyone about it.