I hate being a mom. I really really really really hate it. I always thought I wanted kids, I’ve had baby fever ever since I was a teenager. I might have even gotten pregnant carelessly on purpose just because I thought I wanted a baby. My first child is a great kid, I am blessed with him. My second was planned and is a nightmare. I yell like my mom did, I try so hard to remain calm when dealing with her but she refuses to listen to anyone. She is 7 and acts like she is 14, what am I going to do when she’s 14?! I love her so much but I just want to be there with her when she’s good which is never. If I could go back and change my life I would never have had kids. What was I thinking? I am miserable and stuck. It is such a horrible feeling to hate being a mother. You can’t tell anyone that. She tells me she hates me and that I’m a horrible mother for asking her to take a bath or brush her teeth. It takes its toll on you after a while even though I know she doesn’t mean it.