I don’t know about that to be honest.

I guess if you care strong enough and you get shot down, I suppose it could drive a person to be better in certain areas, maybe.

But I have been rejected in ways where it didn’t really do much either way. It didn’t dress me, it didn’t make me really want to do something more, it didn’t make me happy, it’s was just the way it is. It noti aged me to go “well alright then… Well, I wonder what’s up the road in a day or a week or 3 months or a year, whatever.

It depends on what it is. It might drive some people hard. In a good way but being driven to be not a be good person, is not good either.

It could make a person indifferent.