You could say the same about me, that I’m ugly, and that’s fine, it’s your opinion, but it it’s me looking for something out of you. If I don’t give a s*** about you, it makes no difference to me what you think of me, unless it turns into obsession and harassment and unwanted attention and who knows what else.
As a pro tipn: I can always get by in life being around people who despise me. I have stuck out working at places where 80% of people hated me, because 1) I hated them too, this situation was not about friendship, and I didn’t really give much of a s*** about what people think one way or the other and 2) I have more than enough people outside of the toxic circle who do like/love/respect me. So who cares?
If it bothers you that someone is a jerk/a******/f***** to you being “nice”… Well you care too much about something that is not there. You made thinking too much. It’s borderline harassment. You need to back off. They don’t like you.