I’m 23 and have a crush on a girl no older than 14. It’s not really a s***** thing, though the thought has occurred to me and I still feel dirty from it. She’s extremely pretty and her body is developing well, she’ll make a lucky boy very happy some day. My hormones keep telling me it’s okay because she’s obviously hit puberty, but my brain keeps saying I’m a p******** and need help. I would never make a move on her but, if she kissed me, I’d kiss her back. Please don’t call me a p********. Please tell me I’m not the only one to have this happen to them.