I do want to take a moment and make it perfectly clear, that yes, I am naive. I trust too easily and unless I am supposed to take care of the person I don’t keep track of their medications or how they are taking it. I took a drug and human behavior course and what she said about the absorption issues taking a toll on her made sense so she snorted her medications to get it into her system faster and to get the full effect. I mean its why people that have rny gastric bypass have to take calcium three to six times a day depending on your level of need and what other medications you’re on. it took a while of me observing her behavior and quietly watching before I realized the extent of her issues.

Her car at the time she moved in smelled horrible. living in it for two weeks with a cat took a toll on the smell of her car, but she would blame it on my children’s car seats and she demanded that we not leave them in her car because they stunk. we washed them, and she still complained. finally, my husband said to her that maybe it’s the fact her car was used for a litter box. her cat, derp, even though he’s supposedly fixed, would spray everywhere. this wasn’t just the case with my home either as it was confirmed that he would do this in other homes that he was staying in.