Are you unattainable? Is that the problem?
Maybe that’s why they don’t pay any attention to you? From my perspective, for example, if say Taylor Swift was in love with me. Just for example. Maybe she has a big crush on me from way back when she was too young for me to notice and I wasn’t listening to her music seriously, because it’s out of my age group. I would hear a song on the radio “Teardrops On My Guitar” in my truck at work in the middle of nowhere in a different town, in a snow storm, and think “hmmm, she sounds like a nice young lady, that’s a sweet song. I play guitar too, and I wish the woman I loved would see me too. I’m trying, it’s not working, I can relate…” But nothing more.

Say today I found out she had has a crush on me..I don’t know what I would make of that. I really don’t. That’s a lot of weight and a lot to consider. Flattered I guess. Yeah of course it would be nice, I know certain celebs can probably get lonely and are constantly around fake people, yes men and women, many aren’t real, sincere, everything is superficial, everything is fake, and I’m sure it s**** in more ways than one. There is a vulnerability there, which in my opinion is good. That’s a good thing. I want that. I want a woman who will lean on me. I don’t want to her “meh, I don’t need a MAN for this or that” f*** that. Fine. You don’t need me then. But at the same time it’s not just about her. It’s her parents and “her people”, band, fans, the army of security guards around her at all times, people who think it’s me looking to gain something etc, etc, etc, etc.

A lot of guys would dive head first while doing sideways somersaults without a second thought, look at the comments in her video’s. Not me. I can be scared away.