I’m sort of seeing this guy who asked me to be his gf I said yes initially since we were drunk but asked to take a step back later on since it was going to fast. Long story short went on a rugby tour where we got drunk, played a silly game passing ice around with each other’s month, I’d been chatting to this guy friendly and got given the ice. I went to give it to my friend and one of the guys in the team rushed over and angled me toward the guy I was talking to so I gave it to him. Later on we were talking to my friend who was pissed and she told him to make his move so he did and we ended up making out the rest of the night. No one knew about the guy back home and I’m not sure he understood what I meant by a step back. But either way I don’t know if I cheated or not