I am not married so I can do as I wish. not that marriage would stop me doing as I wish. as a woman I’m not gonna be a completely subservient wife if I ever do marry. To me love is a mutual agreement based on trust and love over ego stuff. Maybe that is why I never married because I didn’t need the ego b******* of it all. I just wanted the s** and love and comforts and didn’t mind responsibilities but I have none. Which suits me to be honest. Until I find the right man.