I’m female and almost 50 now, and only recently realized what I did to someone and how bad it was for him. When I was 12 I got my stepdad arrested and convicted of child molestation. It happened. I was molested by him constantly for a year and he deserved to go to jail. Still, what bothers me is that I not only initiated it, I threatened to tell everyone he molested me if he didn’t tell me stuff about s**, and later, as it progressed, I threatened the same if he didn’t show me his p****. I was just curious and super embarrassed my mom would find out I was asking about s**. Then he began molesting me. It went on for almost two years. He was the adult. I was a child. I keep telling myself that.