The thing is though, it’s not a judgement is a shaming way. I won’t sit there and go on and on about your lifestyle and tell you it’s wrong, I am not a religious person or anything like that. People will do what they will do. I miss but make it known what I believe and what I am looking for what I like and what I don’t.

But I will absolutely judge because I am careful about what I let into my life. You can consider yourself a bi s***** or a pansexual (stupid and non existent) woman who hangs around and fucks 20 something “pansexual” boys.

That’s ok. But it’s not something I want any part of. At all. I won’t get mad, I won’t scold you about it, I don’t expect you to change it, you can’t, ultimatums are useless. People don’t change. They can’t. I just write you off and that’s that. There’s something else out there for me. More my style. You can test me out and make a post like “well, I had this depressing thing happen and I also had to take 2 pregnancy tests this week, so that’s how my week is going…” Alright.

Not sure what you’re expecting out of me or my reaction, but tbh it’s a big turn off. Big time. Not jealousy, not angry, just turned off. Nothing could save it at that point. There is not a thing you could possibly do to revive my interest at that point. On top of the other mountain of them offs. I can’t help but be turned off. And if it’s bad enough it’s a permanent turn off, no matter who you are. It’s basically like taking something and stomping it into the dirt for 7 days straight. It ends up dead.

The result is I’m turned off. Permanently. What it means is I’m no longer interested. More than likely ever again. You’re a write off at that point.

Some guys might still be interested. Not me, which shouldn’t be a big deal. You obviously should have no problem what so ever finding a replacement interest.

Really though as far as having my a lot of past s**, that matters too. That’s waaaaaaaaay too much baggage to be lingering around out there for my liking. Some guys think it’s great. We know there’s one thing you are good at, and they’re getting some. That’s not the way I say it. That’s just a lot of potential migraine headaches. It’s incompatibility which is no big deal. The majority of people in this world are completely incompatible with each other. Nothing new. No reason to get angry.