I think you are so unhappy with your own life and marriage that you try to exacerbate any problems others might have in their relationships. You have nothing but terrible things to say about any of your friends’ or your sister’s boyfriends/husbands. Even when we tell you how well things are going, you harp on past problems and insist our SOs must have ulterior motives. I think YOU are the reason your sister is getting another divorce. She listened to you. and I think you’re delighted that she’s as miserable as you, now–just like I think it pisses you off that I am happy with my life and marriage.